...one thing for sure: never as we wish for! ...not in the wrong sense of speaking... really... simple fact that I need to add that means that I still have to learn... :)
If I were to wish for anything, I should not wish for wealth and power, but for the passionate sense of potential -- for the eye which, ever young and ardent, sees the possible. Pleasure sappoints; possibility never. -- Soren Kierkegaard